• Season 3 | Episode 24 | Carey Portell | Not Just a Survivor

May 16, 2019 7 Comments

Carey Portell is a survivor.  Seven years ago Carey was headed into town when she was in a car accident that changed her life.  As she explains it, one second she was laughing with her daughters, who were in the back seat and the next she looked up and realized her life would be forever changed.  A one-ton pickup was heading straight for her at 80 miles per hour. She had no time to react. She doesn’t remember anything from right after the accident but has pieced it together by the accounts of others.  Her daughters called her husband and he came immediately, knowing it was bad. Once she came to, her vision was only in black and white. She was trapped in the car and it took EMT workers over an hour to cut her out.  Miraculously she survived. Her daughters were taken to a hospital with treatable injuries, but for Carey, it was worse. Her pelvis and ankles were shattered. As the events unfolded it became clear that the man who hit her had been killed on impact.  He wasn’t wearing his seatbelt and if he had lived it would have been his fifth offense of drunk driving. The accident rocked the small, close-knit community; all five cars involved held friends or neighbors.


The journey that has followed has been the true test.  After weeks in the hospital, twelve surgeries with more to come and more pain than any one person should ever endure, Carey can finally walk again.  Her pelvis and ankles are fused, allowing her a limited range of motion, but she is grateful for what she has.  See the video telling why Carey decided to thrive, not just survive.


The day we arrived at Carey’s farm, I wasn’t sure quite what to expect, but Carey blew me away.  Greeting us at the door with a sweet smile and sunny disposition, the mother of four didn’t look like someone who had been through such pain.  She was getting ready to start her day, doing chores on one of the three farms she and her husband care for along with other partners. While putting on her boots, she explained the special braces she has that keep her upright throughout the day.  A day that holds a maximum of 3000 steps before her injuries take over and she can no longer stand.  See the video where Carey walks again.


We left the house and Carey climbed up into the big farm truck - we drove down to the nearby barn and Carey jumped out to start her chores.  From feeding the horses and cattle to doing pasture checks, Carey worked with efficiency. She explained that Agribility, a resource for farmers who have disabilities, has helped her immensely from getting their UTV outfitted with an automatic feeder for the cows to helping her assess and restructure her day to get the most out of her efforts.  As she talked and worked, she explained to me that after spending the first two years post-accident in a wheelchair, she couldn’t do much of anything. Trying to get herself out, she started going out to check cows with her kids and would bring a report back to her husband. That feeling of being able to contribute something again is what she credits for leading her back.  The farm, the cattle became her emotional therapy. As she gained strength and confidence, it then became physical therapy.


To say Carey Portell is strong is an understatement.  As I followed her around the farm and watched her careful steps and well-thought-out actions, I was absolutely amazed by this woman.  When life handed her a situation that most people would give in to, she fought back. Carey knew that she was spared her life so she could go on, and spread her message to others.  Carey is passionate, proud, hard-working, strong, caring, full of faith, and Carey is a FarmHer.

See more about Carey, here.




7 Responses

Carey Portell
Carey Portell

May 02, 2020

Thank you for all of your wonderful comments & suggestions ! I am just seeing these a year late !
Jeff I have heard of stem cell but not the others, I will research this as I am having some major difficulties these past 6 months!
Bless you all & bless you Marji !

Judy Bailey
Judy Bailey

August 24, 2019

Carey, thank you for inspiring others through your story. Could you please forward info on the auger that fills your atv feeder from the bulk bin.

Richard Hill
Richard Hill

August 23, 2019

What an inspiring story.God bless her and her family.

Jamie
Jamie

July 29, 2019

This is such an inspirational story. My husband has been suffering with tarlov cyst surgeries and continues to struggle with the daily farm chores with me by his side. I loved reading your story and could relate to farm life being therapeutic and the best physical therapy. Thanks for sharing your story you’re an inspiration.

Jamie
Jamie

July 29, 2019

This is such an inspirational story. My husband has been suffering with tarlov cyst surgeries and continues to struggle with the daily farm chores with me by his side. I loved reading your story and could relate to farm life being therapeutic and the best physical therapy. Thanks for sharing your story you’re an inspiration.

Jeff Fivecoat
Jeff Fivecoat

June 17, 2019

I want to share something that helped me with an ongoing injury that provided good results. Although I think this may not be new for Carey, I would feel bad if I did not at least mention the treatments. I had a non healing injury from a horse riding accident. Nothing helped with the pain and healing. I started to get Prolotherapy and Platelet-Rich Plasma Therapy. These combined therapies gave me almost 90% relief and that relief is ongoing after treatment ended. There is also a further step with Stem Cell therapies. I wish Carey every healing success and thank her for her bravery and inspiration.

Best Wishes,

Jeff

http://prolotherapycollege.org/what-is-prolotherapy/

https://www.hss.edu/condition-list_prp-injections.asp

Michael Hersom
Michael Hersom

May 19, 2019

I am an avid fan and this story has to be best one yet. What an amazing zeal for Life by Carey Portell. Keep up the wonderful and inspirational spotlights on these amazing women in the agriculture community. We are truly blessed to have such an educational and professional program to enjoy watching weekly. Thank You!

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